There are some great clinics and vets around so I would seriously consider leaving if thats the way they are going to treat you. I used to do vet nursing some years ago and the vet I worked for was horrible and didn't treat his nurses very well (except for the senior nurse which was his favourite).

I actually got the sack because I had to balance the accounts and banking at the end of my shift. I had a call from my family who had a horse that had been stung by a bee and needed antihistimine ASAP. I had to leave and get some from an equine vet or the horse would die. The vet said if I left not to come back.

Not the same as your situation but I think you need to put your family first. You have obviously done a lot to try to accomodate them and they are not being fair to you.

Good luck with your decision.

Gemma.