thread: Job interview tomorrow - should I tell?

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    May 2007
    3,341

    You dont have to tell as it is against the law for them not to hire you on that basis!
    So i wouldnt tell. After a few weeks (or months) when you are ready to tell them then try. They cant fire you, stop you from attending training or diadvantage you in anyway for the pregnancy and if they do then they are up for alot of trouble in the antidiscrimnation laws.

    In my personal experience, i was 10 weeks pregnant at my job interview but i knew that my pregnancy would not effect my chances of the job (casual position) and also it was important for them to know for work related risks.

    since working - my coworkers are aware of my pregnancy and they are really good with helping me out and giving me suitable clients to my condition (lol condition). I still can attend training and no have not been discriminated against.

    i hope the interview goes well.

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jul 2008
    S.E. Melbourne
    802

    Personally I wouldn't tell them yet - even thought it is against the law to discriminate on the basis of pregnancy, they can and may well use another reason for not hiring you, but really it is just the pregnancy that is the issue. I'm still yet to tell my managers that I'm pregnant as I'm still on probation and they could easily turn around and tell me I'm not needed anymore, with the pregnancy being the underlying issue (of course they won't say that!) HTH and good luck xox

  3. #3
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    Add Sterla on Facebook

    Jun 2008
    Tasmania
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    Thanks everyone. It's an office job, so I won't tell them. If I'm hired, great - and I'll deal with telling them later. Just need to get through the interview... eek!

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    37

    YA to not telling women are discriminated enough as it is

    Did anyone see the section on paid maternity leave on the Sunrise program this morning

    Nat should have got stuck into the guy (can't remember his name) after his comment about hard to go back to work for men can loose job in industry. Nat pointed out that see also had the same problems after her baby but the idiot did not understand that said women where better suited to raising children - are we still in the 1900's please

  5. #5
    KeithCheggers Guest

    Hi
    I don't think I would.
    My partner and I were interviewed the same day by the same people for different jobs at the same company, oddly enough he was asked no questions about his plans to start a family but I was. I was quite vague, I said I was hoping to buy a house first... I'm also hoping to win the lottery first! I only stayed there for a couple of months but was also asked about my plans for a family in the job I'm at now and said the same.
    I have just under 2 months of my probationary period left (6 months in total) and am now 7 weeks pregnant. I'm waiting to tell anyone at work until this date has passed, that's the plan anyway.
    Good luck with what happens
    Vicky

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Aug 2004
    Sth East Melbourne
    1,324

    I actually was in that situation too and i did not tell my potential boss at the interview - however once i had been working there a few weeks i told her that ihad just found out ( i was about 11 weeks) and she was really cool with it and when it came time to have bub i was given as much time as i wanted off and she covered me with temps - I took 3 months off and then went back and expressed etc I was working only 1 day a week prior to bub and now do 2-3 and i asked my boss the other day why she was so flexible for me and she said that she probably wouldnt have given me the job if i had come announcing my pregnancy but once she had me there and knew how good i was at my job , she was willing to so whatever to keep me. (I should have asked for a pay rise then!)

    Good luck and jut do what feels right to you at the time - i HATE lying but really wanted the job!