Leah - yeah we have bub due in June and wedding at end of August... bub was an unexpected suprise!!! Eloping does sound like a good option right now, but I want to be able to share it with family and friends - have even thought about organising a massive bbq and inviting people, and then just have a celebrant turn up... no one would be clued in (except for those that would have to travel) and it would be a lot less hassle...
Briggsy's girl - I must have been oblivious this whole time.. I haven't heard anything about the means testing coming in... or maybe I just didn't pay attention because I didn't think it would be of concern to me for a number of years yet.. oh well