Update - after thinking about the role (thought separating about bubs) it's not a role I do not have skills in, I know they can be learnt, but they kept emphasizing the commitment required for getting deadlines done, which could involve late nights. Not to mention, it would be up to me to ensure those deadlines were met by other depts but I was titled a manager and the pay was pretty cruddy for that stress!!
So I decided to take 'all good things come to those that wait' attitude!