I guess i know that Iam jumping the gun a little atm, but i do want to be prepared for when bubs comes and I do anticipate a fair bit of discomfort once I start to get bigger. Another thing that impacts on me with being a childcare worker, is that I see children in childcare at a young age alot, and although i really understand the need for money and stability, sometimes babies under one are truely better off in one on one care, which in a childcare setting just doesn't happen. I also think that I just deserve a break, besides being pg and eventually having a baby. I don't think my dh understands how tired i am not from being pg but from working and studying for sooooo long. My mind and body just needs to do it's own thing for a while!!
Thanks for all of your replies.

Kellie.