Canniel : Go for it... reach for the stars... as you will find it really enjoyable being able to have another source of stimulation.
As much as having kids is a joy and a half, being able to reward yourself with a home business can be a VERY enjoyable thing...

Just seing Kelly (BellyBelly) do her things with her businesses, I believe is a positive thing not only for her, but also me... Some times she is even happy.. haha.. in all due respect, it is great to be able to see her sit down, and get the stuff she really loves to get done... and I am sure everyone has that gift to give to others and to them selves

Kate10 : I am sure that that 'thing' will come to you and DP soon enough...

It does take alot of 'roll the sleaves up and work', and there can be quite some stress. I would suggest keeping an honest perspective of how you are going/coping with it all though... Be sure to network, and have the support network YOU need, from all angles... be it as a parent, a wife, a business owner, etc... but some times it does take a little 'push' to get ya all motivated enough to get going again, OR a little 'put your feet up' to put you in that knock-em dead mode...

Wishing you all the best