Bec

I was also going to not go back to my job but I ahve decided that I am and start back in a weeks time.I was like you and thought I'd stay at home but I changed my mind after having Gemma. For a start yep the extra money is starting to get more and more appealing even though I really didn't have to go back to work and just to get back out into the real world again as I've found being a SAHM for me is very isolating.But like I said those were my feelings and reasons.

Like Lucy has said at the time of beng pregnant not going back to work and just leaving seems like the obvious easier choice.I had problems with my owrk they forced me to go on maternity leave at 23 weeks and pressured me not to come back.My boss said how could she put someone on a contract as well and how could I bear to leave my baby with strangers!WTF!It was so none of her business what I did!

Its totally up to hun as you could always find another job later anyway that is parttime and fits in better with your new lifestyle.I was actually allowed to pick my hours when I decided to come back to work!I got lucky though.

Goodluck in deciding...........only you know whats best for you and your family to be.............