Also my mum does think our flat is like student digs and not a home - so that prob gives you an idea of how little I prioritize home stuff.
Lol . My mil is here at moment and truly believes that my house is just a shambles cause I have had a few rough weeks working f/t with sick kids and husband.. My house is always like this, i don't do domesticated mummy well, but I generally make an effort when she is coming over (lives in nz so no random visits..)

But here is a little about me and my work situation i usually work 2 full days a week, and mornings see me commute between an hr and hr and half depending if I drop DS off to daycare and dd off to before school care. My dh is a shift worker, and often does drop off, but the only concession I get is not dressing the kids.. I still do hair, lunches, breakfast, and get to leave later. I don't financially have to work anymore, but with dd being at school, and DS being 3 and made some friends at daycare when I did have to work financially last year, I figured I would be silly to give up my hrs.. I do like my job and the people I work with, most of the time, and not bring a domesticated by nature person, I find going to work a good balance.