get your husband to find a better paying job so you can stay at home with ds !!! you dont need the stress and ds doenst need a fill in mum while you are behind a desk simply because you have to bring money to the table , I would forget about the comapny and find a more conveinet(sp) way to earn extra cash .....

when i returned to work it was worse for me to work , in the end we were better off me just staying at home , cc costs were too high extra petrol , less time with ds and less time with dh ....

is it really worth you going to work full time?????? i would tell the companies that if they are going to breach laws that you dont want to be working for an unethical company ....