Well i went in and told my boss about the M/c as i have had to take time off work and all and he immediately kinda swings round and says - so does that mean you are trying - i mumbled something like doesn't mean we were trying these things do just happen - rather unconvincingly - so at least now he knows that at some stge in the future i am going to be leaving to have a bubs - he is one of those observant men in gneral - rare bread i know- but yeah he will be watching me from now on...Even things like me not having alcoholic drinks on my exoenses will twig him - so might have to buy some for random people to confuse him...