Hi Nae, it is so hard isn't it? They don't know for sure wether I have it either, but I feel there is some issue there. Originally they just wanted to do the fortnightly scans, but my fear with that which the OB confirmed is that they could still miss it, or find out too late for the stich to then be of any help. I am concerned about increasing my infection risk by doing so, but he is going to do a double stitch (one up high where it is meant to be, one lower) this apparently has some promising research for keeping the bugs out. I am so sorry about your Nikita, to have had such a short time with our angels is so very hard, wishing you all the best for the future. Feel free to join us girls in the TTC after late loss thread, if you ever need some extra support.