They don't know for sure wether I have it either, but I feel there is some issue there. Originally they just wanted to do the fortnightly scans, but my fear with that which the OB confirmed is that they could still miss it, or find out too late for the stich to then be of any help.
Yep thats the scariest part of it isn't it - finding out a little too late. I was 2 cm dialated with bulging membranes when I wen tinto hospital.
My Ob has discussed weekly check up and ultrasounds with a sonographer who was once a Gyn and who is specialised in cases such as ours. We have discussed a suture but Ob feels very strongly that it was contractions and is against using them unless necessary. I am willing to trust him at this stage but I may feel different when we start our TTc journey and fall in again.

Thanks for the understanding. I am so sorry about the loss of your son. Its a heart wrenching thing to go through and thank goodness for BB and finding others who have been through the same or similar things its such a comfort to have when most (around me anyway) cannot possibly fathom what its like.

I will be joining the TTC group once we get to that stage

again best wishes hun x x