It's worth mentioning that lots and lots of women have extra fluid in the late 1st/early 2nd tri - it's your body making room for bub's next growth spurt. It can be a sign of potential problems if it remains throughout the 2nd tri and into the 3rd but generally it calms down again. My local hospital doesn't even scan (unless you've already had problems) during the 2nd tri for this reason.

If the 2nd doc said it wasn't true i'd put it right out of your head. Sounds like if there was excess it's resolved itself.

As for "you're so big/small" comments/feelings, i reckon every pregnant woman suffers those! I can remember one day i got up, was about 23 or 24 wks, felt great, still in my normal jeans with a rubber band holding the top 2 buttons shut, went to work, receptionist : "God you're MASSIVE, when do you go off for maternity leave?" Got into office, workmate: "WHen are you going to start looking pregnant?. So subjective. I had says when i got up feeling 20wks preg and went to bed feeling 40wks! The day before she was born (41wks3days) i felt like an elephant - been pregnant for at LEAST 2 years.

HTH

Hana