I am so sorry for your diagnosis of fetal hydrops and hygroma.

One of my good friends had a baby with this and she was delivered stillborn at 20 weeks.

Her entire journey was documented and can be found here:

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Unfortunately, when the combination of hydrops and hygroma is found this diagnosis isn't good - and that coupled with finding it early doesn't make it better (apparently the earlier it appears the more severe it is)

HOWEVER - Here is another site I'd like you to look at - it offers hope because some of these babies DO survive.

Hydrops Fetalis Community AND Benotafraid.net an outreach to parents with a poor prenatal diagnosis

Medical science knows so little as to why this happens - and the advice is often given to abort - but who knows how many of those bubs would have survived.

In my friends case, she developed Mirror Syndrome and almost died in her attempts to bring her baby to a safe gestation. But as mummas, you do what you need to for your children.

Good luck sweetheart - I hope I am soon reading about your miracle baby xxx