Incomp Cervix and Toddler

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Hi girls,
I was just wondering if any one here has done this. My main issue is lifting DD who isn't that heavy but the strain on a stitch would be a disaster. My other issue is that if I have to do bed rest what am I going to miss out in watching her and visa versa is she going to forget about the woman laying in the bedroom and prefer the person that plays all the great games. I originally thought to go back (IVF) in December for a Jan transfer but realistically that is 11 weeks away:eek: . Also can someone help telling me when toddlers get reliant in climbing into car seats and getting out of baths.
Thanks
Bec