just so exhausted, emotionally drained. I dont know if i should go and pick up DD from school at the end of the day or just let her go to afterschool care and wait for the call. I will feel terribl if its bad news and o breakdown with her here, DF wont be home till 7....
holly - if the test is ok i will ask what the sex is - all i want is a healthy bub so if they tell me its healthy i guess there's no harm in knowing!
oh and divvy , lulu - ha! you are on. i cant believe ow two faced a person can be.
Last edited by Kitt3n; May 27th, 2008 at 10:46 AM.
: thanks to divvy's offer
Good luck for today and MIL's just feel as though they need to but in when it isn't called for and all she knows this might have just been a much wanted baby.... maybe that is what your DF should have said!
Thinking of you Kitt3n and sending you strength and love...
This is one of those unbearable curve balls that life throws you and you WILL get thru this, with all of our support.
I have had to wait for that phone call and it is harrowing. So, remember you have a whole bunch of Belly Belly women here holding your hand.
When that fear creeps in today remind yourself that NT is an indicator and that false positives are common. Eat Tim tams and feel the sun on your face.
As for your MIL - how sad that she has so much negativity. Don't let it drag you down -
hi,
i went through the same my nt scan showed the fold to be 3.3mm when above 3 is abnormal my dr assumed i would abort!! More than likely everything will come back totally fine, good luck.
Sorry your mil was like that theres no need for that!
Huge Hugs to you. Stay positive and good luck for the phone call.
If you are worried about breaking down in front of daughter let her go to after school care so you have some head space for you, or get someone to be with you this arvo when you are expecting phone call.
In relation to MIL thats rude and un called for how terrible of her to say that.
Kitt3n, I am sure bub is perfect in every way! The tests will come back clear and they will even tell you something better than you expect. Will you find out the unit's sex?
Now I dont want to sound negative but IF, and only IF, the resuts come back that bub is DS, what would you do? use it as preparation, or abort? I will have NT next time and will use it as preparation, but I totally understand the feelings that come with it. Have you ever heard the poem about Holland?
If the tests come back certain we will abort. breaks my heart - please dont anyone be angry at me for this, i just couldnt bring a little one into the world if i knew one day they wouldnt be able to take care of themself, after i am gone.............. i guess that makes this wait even harder.
I wish we could have paid even extra to have the results sooner!
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