12

thread: NT Scan - Not good

Hybrid View

Previous Post Previous Post   Next Post Next Post
  1. #1
    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Melbourne
    1,628

    Kitt3n thinking of you today. I hope your results come back all clear.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Nov 2006
    Somewhere Over The Rainbow
    3,094

    thankyou all of you!

    just so exhausted, emotionally drained. I dont know if i should go and pick up DD from school at the end of the day or just let her go to afterschool care and wait for the call. I will feel terribl if its bad news and o breakdown with her here, DF wont be home till 7....

    holly - if the test is ok i will ask what the sex is - all i want is a healthy bub so if they tell me its healthy i guess there's no harm in knowing!

    oh and divvy , lulu - ha! you are on. i cant believe ow two faced a person can be.
    Last edited by Kitt3n; May 27th, 2008 at 10:46 AM. : thanks to divvy's offer

  3. #3
    Registered User
    Add Beatrix on Facebook

    May 2007
    within a puff of pink
    3,315

    thinking of you today, I hope all the tests results come back clear

  4. #4
    SugarDust Guest

    Kitt3n - You have all of us here if you ever need to talk!

    EVERY THING WILL BE OK!

  5. #5
    Registered User
    Add DANNIIM on Facebook

    Sep 2007
    Northern - WA
    1,786

    Good luck for today and MIL's just feel as though they need to but in when it isn't called for and all she knows this might have just been a much wanted baby.... maybe that is what your DF should have said!

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    Melbourne
    1,798

    thinking of you today hun and that everything will be fine..........

    As for you MIL, well my language to describe her would not be suitable for this forum!

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Feb 2007
    Queensland
    565

    Good luck, am thinking of you, must be a horrible time having to wait around. Fingers crossed for a positive outcome.

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Nov 2007
    Off with the fairies.
    4,370

    Good luck with your results.
    I'm sure everything will be fine.

    As for the MIL. OMG!! I can't believe she said that.

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Gippsland, Victoria
    714

    Thinking of you and sending you Cant wait to hear that everything is FINE! Stay busy today and know we're all thinking of you XX

  10. #10

    Oct 2005
    A Nestle Free Zone... What about YOU?
    5,374

    Thinking of you Kitt3n and sending you strength and love...

    This is one of those unbearable curve balls that life throws you and you WILL get thru this, with all of our support.

    I have had to wait for that phone call and it is harrowing. So, remember you have a whole bunch of Belly Belly women here holding your hand.

    When that fear creeps in today remind yourself that NT is an indicator and that false positives are common. Eat Tim tams and feel the sun on your face.

    As for your MIL - how sad that she has so much negativity. Don't let it drag you down -

    Love to you

  11. #11
    Registered User

    Nov 2006
    Somewhere Over The Rainbow
    3,094

    They Just Called Me, No Abnormalities!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Jul 2007
    melb
    8,498

    Thats Fantastic news hun!!!!!!!!

    Huge hugs

    YEAH

  13. #13
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Gippsland, Victoria
    714

    Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!!!!!! How wonderful for you! Thats fantastic news!

  14. #14

    Feb 2008
    With my awesome cherubs
    2,975

    hi,
    i went through the same my nt scan showed the fold to be 3.3mm when above 3 is abnormal my dr assumed i would abort!! More than likely everything will come back totally fine, good luck.
    Sorry your mil was like that theres no need for that!

  15. #15
    Registered User

    Feb 2008
    on a journey called life, finding our way home
    629

    good luck with everything, hope it is ok

  16. #16
    Registered User

    Jul 2007
    melb
    8,498

    Huge Hugs to you. Stay positive and good luck for the phone call.

    If you are worried about breaking down in front of daughter let her go to after school care so you have some head space for you, or get someone to be with you this arvo when you are expecting phone call.

    In relation to MIL thats rude and un called for how terrible of her to say that.

  17. #17
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    Paradise
    4,473

    Kitt3n, I am sure bub is perfect in every way! The tests will come back clear and they will even tell you something better than you expect. Will you find out the unit's sex?

    Now I dont want to sound negative but IF, and only IF, the resuts come back that bub is DS, what would you do? use it as preparation, or abort? I will have NT next time and will use it as preparation, but I totally understand the feelings that come with it. Have you ever heard the poem about Holland?

  18. #18
    Registered User

    Nov 2006
    Somewhere Over The Rainbow
    3,094

    no ali, what poem is that?

    If the tests come back certain we will abort. breaks my heart - please dont anyone be angry at me for this, i just couldnt bring a little one into the world if i knew one day they wouldnt be able to take care of themself, after i am gone.............. i guess that makes this wait even harder.

    I wish we could have paid even extra to have the results sooner!

12