Babidevil
I know what you mean, I have family problems also.

I have gotten support by going to my GP who refered me to one service who then refered me on .....and so on.

I was already on anti dep when I fel preg but had to reduce my medications.
Up here in NSW the hospital that I go to have "Family Care midwives" and "ACE" workers who are helping me.
I have been through alot in the last month and they are keeping a very close eye on me at the moment.
I hope you have some good close friends who can help you through this time.
Stand up for yourself and let the family know that your not a child that they can control anymore.
My family the problem is that I am not the "fave". Plus I live too far away (30 min drive).

Take care
Chris