You can hear the heartbeat at your Dr appointments, you can even get a monitor yourself babe.

I do know what you mean, I did have one u/s with DD2. I needed to see it after my missed m/c.

However, you can't help worrying no matter what - but try! xoxoxoxoxoxo

ETA! Bindy thats exactly my point, what would happen if the test came back pos for DS. Well nothing as far as I'm concerned so there was no point to the test.