I have always had VERY sensitive nipples... My SIL tells me to moisturise, moisturise, moisturise, and my mum tells me to let them dry out, rub them with the loofah (ow), sunbake them, toughen them up...

I am really looking forward to breastfeeding my baby (when she comes), but I am also preparing myself for the fact that I might not be able to withstand it

What should I be doing?