i don't think you need to start eating meat again, andi would suggest you have only been vego for a few months, so it's unlikely to be the cause of low iron, itms. that being said, i would get some ferrograd c tablets, i have seen the effects of low iron, especially post-birth, and frankly, they ruined my life for 2 years, i was put on anti-depressants, i have permanant tattoo-like bruises on my arse from horse-needle iron injections every second day, and still suffer anxiety occassionally. this was all caused by aneamia screwing my nervous system. i had been vego for 12 years.

although, since you have been sick for so long, i would also suggest going to the hospital (if dr appt are hard to get), and get tested for glandular etc.
good luck chickie, i know what you're going through and it's absolutely ****-house.