Should I tell you?

[meegm]

Alan, I would want to know what ever info you had good or bad.

I am in a sitch now where there maybe something wrong with the babie and i know absolutly nonthing and its so driving me insane

i need something and i cant find anything on the net .....

they think my baby has a lump in/on the skull that they dont know what it is - i have a repet scan friday and the re****s monday and im beside myself with worry .. i have posted a Q and i hope thatwhom ever answers gives me thruth i need it .

That the reason for my answer..

Thanks

[NaeNae]

I am up for the honest truth no matter what it is.
The only two pregnancies I have ever had have both resulted in a loss. I think there is no point candy coating anything but am also aware that opinions differ between various medical staff.

I think if someone asks and there is a strong possibility for a bad outcome its better to know that so you can then hope for the best and not be told the worst outcome then get it. IYKWIM.

I don't like the way some medical people don't tell you whats going on or if there is reason to be concerned (a midwife did that to me) that actually makes you stress and worry more. Or turn a blind eye, if I hadn't taken your advice Alan, Nikita would have been born at work at 21 weeks and there would have been nothing anyone could do to save her!

Just my opinion