I am up for the honest truth no matter what it is.
The only two pregnancies I have ever had have both resulted in a loss. I think there is no point candy coating anything but am also aware that opinions differ between various medical staff.
I think if someone asks and there is a strong possibility for a bad outcome its better to know that so you can then hope for the best and not be told the worst outcome then get it. IYKWIM.
I don't like the way some medical people don't tell you whats going on or if there is reason to be concerned (a midwife did that to me) that actually makes you stress and worry more. Or turn a blind eye, if I hadn't taken your advice Alan, Nikita would have been born at work at 21 weeks and there would have been nothing anyone could do to save her!
Just my opinion
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