Hi Bernie. Welcome to BB. I'm sorry you've joined us under such stressful circumstances.

My cousin's son was diagnosed with ventriculomegaly at her 20 week scan. The prognosis ranged from having a normal, healthy baby to having a child with disability (ranging from mild to severe) to stillbirth or neonatal death. She was offered the opportunity to abort and flatly refused even though she already has a daughter with fatal genetic condition. Her son was born slightly premature (36 weeks) but is a healthy, happy 18 month old.

Sometimes I wonder if all the antenatal scans/tests are worth it. In my cousin's situation, they had identified that her son had a higher risk of disability or death, but it was far from a diagnosis. At least she could prepare herself for the worst I guess, but it caused her a lot of stress, which in her case was unnecessary.

I hope it helps to hear of a happy ending. And I hope you get to have one yourself. All the best