Thanks Ambah.
DH has just been diagnosed and needs to manage his lifestyle. Also doesnt help that he had been smoking for 30yrs and finally quit in Jan (thanks Alan Carr!) He's also a bit overweight, and finally is going something abt it. (Men, I tell you!)
Even more, he has worked on projects on transmitter sites where there is a degree of exposure and microwave frequency radiation. A lot of men who work in this area do have low sperm counts and tend to have daughters.
I've had a uterus ultrasound (this for some other pain ive had) and it's clear.
We've talked that if we dont get pg this mth, DH will go get a SA.

Catherine, I too think it might be a type 1 in your family, if they have to take insulin. type-2 isnt insulin dependant.

thanks guys