Thankyou guys for all of that. I didn't consider a masectomy, but its given me more to think about if I am genetically likely to get it. & its great to hear about implants too...it kind of scared me when I first read that you would do it megiemoppet. It would by far be the best answer, but the thought of doing it myself...I don't know.

It was my paternal grandmother & she only had 3 sons, so its kind of hard to determine just from family history repeating iykwim. My sister already has some AF related problems that are similar to what Grandma had, but we really know nothing about it. Pop won't speak about it & I really don't think they'd have had much Idea anyway. It was the 50s/60s, so not sure what they really knew back then. The only reason we know there were problems of that kind is because for some reason Pop blames Dad. (Her 2nd born.) I don't know if that means it started after he was born or what...there's never been any sort of explanation.

So I'd have to wait til after I finish BFing. OK, cool.

Bath - I like your bigger boobie idea I shouldn't complain being a C, but I have a feeling most of that's milk

MD - Thankyou for your personal insight. I really hope all goes well for you!!