Hi girls, I have just found out today that I have a bladder prolapse. 5 babies, and a lot of MC & early menopause have taken there toll, all the things that no-one tells you about!!!

I have suspected it since my last pregnancy but have had a series of doctors tell me that everything is okay?? I have been going through an early menopause, early & fast it seems!! and since March I have had 3 serious UTI's, after the 1st UTI I had a strange sensation in my pelvic area and clitoris like the start of a UTI , this varies across the day sometimes it eases up to hardly anything then it can be quite strong, more urgency to wee but am drinking gallons of water as well, but have been persistent with the doctors finding they seem to think my anxiety was making me imagine symptoms that are'nt really there..until today when i finally got a physical exam.

My symptoms include fullness heaviness in the vaginal area stinging sensation, burning sensation in the urethra area, slightly painful sex, repeat UTI's, pain in the lower abdomen & back pain mostly lower often one side, but can often then develop into lower back pain band.
I am booked to see a gyno in July and wish the wait was much shorter,(anyyone know how long is too long to wait for treatment, without making it loads worse?) I am guessing due to lack of hormones that the first thing that happens is I will start on estrogen? wondering if anyone can advise me if I also need to see a urologist? I am 2 hours from Melbourne anyone have any recomendations on someone good? I feel like a bit of a failure as a woman, it is making me lose my carefree self and replacing me with someone who is depressed and anxious & my /our sex life is taking a back seat as well, mainly because of the repeat UTI's. Thanks and good luck to everyone.