Hi Sultrysnow and Shiraz76,

I'm really really pleased my post helped you. I know how I felt when no-one could help me, so it's so great that you're feeling ok about it. Yes, we're still trying and have just had our 4th failed IVF attempt, but we'll keep trying. Shiraz76, I'm also on prednisolone and yes your Dr's are right, it is safe in pregnancy, so don't worry.

It's just great for me also to know that I'm not the only one dealing with chronic pain, tramadol and concerns with pregnancy. I know you can't help but feel bad about it, but you do need to be able to function and believe me, I know what it's like when you try and drop your dose, virtually impossible. So hang in there, be kind to yourself and enjoy the little miracle growing inside you. You're not a bad mother for taking tramadol, it's necessary for your existence, just remember that.

Lotsa love and hugs,
Nindy