I'm going to do a pretty post today. ha ha cos I feel so bad.
Hi Tiggy, I guess I felt the same way as Maz, I didn't like having my fertility gone! I dont really know how to describe it. I had only just met my DH when I got the ligation done. It was something we didn't discuss, something I just did. Anyway it was a huge mistake,, I think it was about 7 years later that I had it reversed. I know I have changed alot since then, in the way I feel about myself, I feel like a woman again, before I just felt kinda bland, like a robot.
I hope you find a good doctor you can talk to about this, there are somethings we do as women, that we totally regret , but it can be changed,......
Storm and Maz !
That's exactly how I feel! You just described it in a nutshell.
I am thinking about going back to the doctor who delivered the babies, he was very kind. If I promise him NOT to get pg straight away, he might consider it.
Then of course, if there was a pregnancy we would have to put up with all the judgements from everyone who thinks that pregnancy for us is dangerous/stupid/not well thought out.
Tiggy,
it doesn't matter what everybody else thinks. You're doing it for yourself.
We have a judgmental person ( who shall remain nameless) in our family & we haven't told her I am preg again for those exact reasons. She can find out when she happens to notice my bump!!!!!!!!
Our families are what we decide they are reguardless of what anybody else thinks, or feels they should be.
Don't worry about it, do whats right for you.
Oh Storm
your so pretty!!!!!!!very very pretty!!!!!!!!! i had to follow suit. heheheheheh now i have vision's of Adam Sandler running around in a pink tutu in my head
Im a very black and white person Tiggy. Tell them were to go. I haven't really had any bad fall back, and I was expecting it from Jed's side of the family but they are excited as us. (maybe cause their Catholics:eek: . I went scrapbooking last night and all the women there were fasinated and think its great too. There' s one ladie there who's been trying for 3 years for number 3 and she told me she's coming to kidnap Vyolett when she's born. I just wanted to hug her.
As for me Storm, still sick and not eating as much as I should be. I got to the midwives on Thursday so lets see what they say. Ive lost 14kg to date but im starting to feel better (maybe that's cause I just got up). A few of my friends have said it looks like Ive dropped already. I have to be careful cause I went into early labour with both boys, Nikolaus at 28 weeks and Wilhelm at 32 so I hope Vyolett behaves or I'll kick her buttocks!
I better go, my brothers coming to plaster soon and I haven't showered and my boobs are hanging (no bra yet) and it's not a pretty sight. Oh can see Vyolett moving on the outside now. I forgot how amazing that is.
My god Storm 8 weeks already. Holly cow man. IM feeling pink here....(Ive been very worng with everyone)
Hubby just read my post over my should, he said no-one has said anything cause they're probably scared to. Opps!
take care babes
xxmaz
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