It's really sad to see how many women regret having it done hey?
I felt exactly the same way.

At first I used AF as my excuse for wanting the reversal, Af was nasty & would last up to 2 weeks sometimes, I had horrific cramps, & would absolutely flood the first day, it was a real nightmare. But when I told DH I would love another baby & having the op done would be a bonus he was thrilled!! & AF was so much better afterwards too.

I know it's wrong to fib to hubby's but have you ever thought of telling him it's because AF is so bad you need it done? (norty me, but that's what I had intended on doing, but guilt got the better of me.) I guess I was lucky to find DH felt the same way.
You shouldn't let yourselves be tormented like this for the sake of keeping some one else happy, it is your body, it is your right.

:eek: Maz 30 weeks??