Hi maz, yes it feels like its all about him, most of the time. Says he loves me and would'nt do anything to stuff it up, but yeas I do feel like I'm 1 of the kid's and not his wife. Some times I wish I could just shake the **** out of him. He does'nt truly understand how I feel, even though he says he does.. Hope your son feels better soon, it's not nice knowing your son is so sad and there's not much you can do.. Big Hugs for him..