Hey Dearmum....it is funny how you mentioned about the scrag-a-muffin, as she has started again, but now her stories are getting so over the top that we now have her friends emailing us, telling us how sorry they were for believing in her and her make believe stories....scoreboard 1 to us and 0 to her.....lol she is now saying that my stepdaughter is now engaged (dh's daughter).....she is only 16 and now she is apparently heading off overseas with him.....long story about the heading overseas, but to cut a long story short, scraggle-puss because she herself has only just become an aussie and she is married to a guy from NZ needs to have my dh sign her passport, and she hasn't done so.....both CSA and Passport Office have told us to seek legal advice because as they said, scraggle-puss needs to have my dh's permission to allow the daughter to leave the country and she didn't obtain it and had her dh sign the passport which makes it illegal.....i have always said "karma is a biarch", so now she is about to come face to face with "karma".....LOL.....cheers kiya