Hey Dearmum....it is funny how you mentioned about the scrag-a-muffin, as she has started again, but now her stories are getting so over the top that we now have her friends emailing us, telling us how sorry they were for believing in her and her make believe stories....scoreboard 1 to us and 0 to her.....lol she is now saying that my stepdaughter is now engaged (dh's daughter).....she is only 16 and now she is apparently heading off overseas with him.....long story about the heading overseas, but to cut a long story short, scraggle-puss because she herself has only just become an aussie and she is married to a guy from NZ needs to have my dh sign her passport, and she hasn't done so.....both CSA and Passport Office have told us to seek legal advice because as they said, scraggle-puss needs to have my dh's permission to allow the daughter to leave the country and she didn't obtain it and had her dh sign the passport which makes it illegal.....i have always said "karma is a biarch", so now she is about to come face to face with "karma".....LOL.....cheers kiya
Kiya.... no thats not true about the passport and DH needing to sign. If you go to the post office there is an extra form you fill out if the father is uncontactable. Its called a form B9 Child without full parent consent form. It just takes abit longer to get the passport approved thats all(been there done that). So they don't need to contact your DH at all. I think its all just another excuse to screw with your lives if you ask me. Take it easy darl.
Dearmum.... I dont know anything about pessaries and 12weeks that seems so long. I was on crinone after my transfer with Breah but it only went for 15 days twice a day. We will be transfering 2 on the first go if they let us. I'll be waiting online all day next friday,make sure they give you a picture this time so we can all see these bubbas. Have you done any shopping yet??? Belly shot once a month sounds good to me. We will have to get you a shirt to wear (WIDE LOAD COMING THRU) HEHEHEHE. So looking forward to sharing this with you! xxx
We went into sydney this morning to the big sydney fish market. We are having a big cook up tonight prawns squid, scollops, muscels,fish, calamari. Cost a packet but oh well, i can't wait.
Thanks Mumof6.....yeah this biarch is not letting up now......she is sending us nasty emails because my dh wont acknowledge the daughters engagement......they were hinting at us that we are to help fork out for this so called engagement party and wedding....this is the same person who is abusing us and telling us all because we wont bow down to her wishes and demands that we can't see the chid, but now we have to pay for her engagement and wedding....i don;t think so....she gets enough from my dh as it is $100pw for CSA payments......kiya
hi kiya, mumofsix, dearmum and everyone else, how is your easter going?
Mine was work yesterday atleast it was doubletime and a half as for that house work still trying to get the house organised but with all the kids running around and getting into everything it makes it double the work.
dearmum, hopefully it will be a 2010 baby for us im hoping anyway and my gyno appointment isnt that far away just over a week now so hopefully he will have good news providing all goes well we should be going to start ivf in july. it seems everyone is pregnant at the moment ive got two friends and my sis in law is starting to try for baby number 2 nxt month so im gonna be surrounded by babies just gotta hope now that i can have another one.
Well yesterday I finished my day 5 of Clomid so its belly dancing from here on in!!!.
Got the damn hot flushes today arrgh!!!!. Haven't had to many side effects from it a bit emotional but it could be that everyone is gearing up for my cousins baby arrival....
Dear mum..... How are the twins liking chocolate???? monthly belly shots or weekly sound great.Keep taking it easy hun...
KIya......Wow your biarch could almost double as my DH ex........ I have actually put my foot down this time and said I don't want to see hear or talk about his kids until after we are Preg and it is born .....Not that we get to see them anyhow ( every 2 yrs if we are lucky) as we have to beg and pay bribe money for trips to the airport, packing clothes etc ( at an hourly rate!!!) I told DH if we were paying here that then I would put on on the business books and at least claim here wages back as a tax deduction!!!) I also told DH that packing your kids clothes and making sure they got to the airport safe was what any self respecting mother would do and not have to ask for money for it.
I feel like abtch but my Step kids came up end of Jan and I was so stressed out and upset as a huge family crap went down and the kids weren't allowed to stay with us, so she could have the grandparetns side with her and not their son!!!etc ... whole other story.
Then a week and ahlf after they left our baby died and I just don't want or need that stress with this bub to be......
Anyhow after all that I need more chocolate...
HI Everyone Im Back!!!!
I am still a mum to 5 and but starting ivf really soon...
My baby is almost 5 years old now and now is the time i think... plus I have my partner on my side now.
How is everyone???
KIya Great to see you still in here as also mumofsix (breah has grown so much!!!)
hello to everyone else I have missed...
I have been very quiet Havent I ???
Thankyou for the welcome back Kiya its good to be back...
Mumofsix going for number 7??? WOW.....
good to see so many regulars still in here...
oh for sure darl.....so how have you been.....look forward to catching up with everything you have been up to....tell me everything...hehehe.....cheers kiya
Mummy25... how funny i was only thinking about you today.
Was going to going looking for you tonite when i had a chance to see if you had been posting anywhere else.
So happy to hear from you
HI mumofsix!!!
Kiya,
I have been busy with my 5 children they keep you running around that is for sure.
my son aged 7 finally has an appointment to see if he has adhd as he is on the go full time...
my daughter aged 4 os off to kindergarten next year and my eldest off to year 10 next year.
we have been pretty busy with family problems my nephew a christian and regular church attender aged 17 abused my youngest daughter while her mum babysat one day for me and I went off over that big time.
he is in jail and told the police everything and now I have to wait for his sentence as he was charged with 13 counts he told police he had got to our other children too but we are not allowed to ask them so we wait till after court and they will tell us.
17 and his life is over its sad but as a mum of the victim I really hope he stays in there.
anyway that was months ago and our family has councelling and its going well but we no longer get babysitters anymore our trust is gone.
you never know anyone like you think you do.
I had to put ivf off at that stage as we could not cope with what had happined but now the dust has settled its time to get back and try for a 2010 baby.
how have you been???
Hi LadiesGosh gone for a couple of days and look theres heaps to catch up on hehe.
Well we had a rather boring long weekend didnt go away or anything just had a relaxing few days at home doing NOTHING hehe but it was the best.
Hi Mumof6.....Yeh pessaries are almost the same as crinone but its a wax form instead,i have been told to stop after 9 weeks but something keeps telling me its best to stop at 12 weeks.Hehe did you enjoy all the seafood?did ya have like a BBQ.
I hope your allowed to transfer 2 just dont seetle for less.
Hi Kiya.....Oh dear its been going on for years now hey i really hope the doc can help your son,coz its not fair on him.Hmmm that Biarch is still B****Y pushing it isnt she.Your alot more stronger than me i know i would have put a bullet in her head if it was me.
Yeh when im bad im very bad hehe.
Hi Mrzbaby.....Hehe nah im turned off chocolate for now and yeh im ****ed about that coz next time when im in the mood the eggs will be gone GRRRR.
I hope your havn fun with all the BDing hehe.I bet hubbys not complaining.
Hi Mummy25....Wow you have been through hell i wish i was there i would give your DD a BIG hug.
Good news your doing IVF soon,i cant wait to hear how your all going to go in your cycle.
Ladies im having trouble posting my photobucket here any ideas?
Last edited by dearmum; April 13th, 2009 at 11:12 AM.
Just sticking my head in to let you all know I am still alive....
been so busy lately, & trying to fight the girls for the pc, *sigh* I need to get the other one up & running.
Mummy25...god darl you and your family has been thru the mill. Im so so sorry your kids had to go thru this terrible ordeal, its truely a sad thing. Im glad you's are on top of things now. I don't let people look after my kids either cause noone can't look after them as good as you can. Then if something happens you only have yourself to blame that way. Now you can put all your effort into IVF.
Dearmum...Yeah we had a family BBQ and it was yumo. Is it ok and safe to stay on it that long???? My only tips on posting a pic is to go to the main f.orum page and down a couple of things it says gallary help and tips. Click on that and it will take you to the gallary and you can post it in there then copy and paste.
Storm i know the feeling about the pc. We have the main computer in my room. So we went and got a wireless router thing for 49 dollar and a laptop so we have that in the kitchen. So the kids go in my room and i have the laptop handy all the time.
We had a quiet weekend to. Not much going on here. I went and got a new pram today cause my 3 year old DS is lazy and always stands on the front of the pram then i can't stear it to good. So i got a phil and ted one and its awesome
We spent our Easter having some very much needed rain. I will always say it and will continue to say it (Emm you may know of this) we had to order a water delivery in (i live int he country -whoop whoop and i don't have town water but tanks) and whenever i order water in within either 12 - 24 hours we get rain and it has been raining ever since getting this damn water delivery. It is good however because it is making my property nice and green for my horse. Just wish the horse would stop trying to break down my back door so he can get inside from the rain.....LOL cheers kiya
THankyou mumofsix and dearmum things are better now and we look forward to moving on not hiding in the past...
dearmum your having twins???
last time I was here you were pregnant am I correct? what happined???
mumofsix yes no one can look after them ike their mum can and wow breah is so big now she was a wee bubba last time I was here...
how everything changes...
Kiya it would be good to live in the country I think (apart from the water orders and the snakes who would roam close to home)...
I live in a suburb and dont have much land space...
I went nuts on birds through all of this and started collecting hand reared birds I have like 4 now and so far I have spent on them enough to have ivf 3 times!!!
Its funny how we find things to distract our minds if only the birds were not quite so noisy!!
Its not that bad really when it comes to the water. We can go up to 6 months without having to get water especially if we keep getting the rain every now and then. Just after yesterday all my water tanks are now overflowing. For the snakes, they have learned that if the enter my property they will get either stomped on by my horse or one of collies will go chasing them and kill them or the babies will become cat bait. We trained our dogs from puppies to be raters, mousers and snakers. So they catch the snake half kill it and then i finish it with the shovel.....LOL I have been here for nearly 6 years and i have not yet lost and animal to a snake bite, but my neighbour on the other hand lost 2 expensive competition warmblood horses, many kittens and cats and several dogs....cheers kiya
Mummy25.... yes she sure has grown up. She will be one on the 1st May.
My 10 year old DS also has ADHD. Thank turned our family on its head from the time he was about 15mths old till he seen a specialist when he was 5. He seen doctors after doctor for special tests then finally they decided to medicate him. He was on dex first then ridlin.They have to many highs and lows, one minute there like a bl00dy zombie witch upset me so much and then the next he was coming down and was his normal self. So he's now on concerta ED36mgs 1 tablet a day. Its awesome. He eats more he grows more and his behaviour stays at one level all day, no highs no lows but right in the middle witch is great.
Dearmum... come on FRIDAY im so excited....
. I'll be waiting online all day next friday,make sure they give you a picture this time so we can all see these bubbas. Have you done any shopping yet??? Belly shot once a month sounds good to me. We will have to get you a shirt to wear (WIDE LOAD COMING THRU) HEHEHEHE. So looking forward to sharing this with you! xxx
,fish, calamari. Cost a packet but oh well, i can't wait.
Gosh gone for a couple of days and look theres heaps to catch up on hehe.
i wish i was there i would give your DD a BIG hug.
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im so excited....
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