hun, take it as it comes and know there are so many people here to support you no matter what happens, if that means getting together info on Type 1 diabetes then so be it, if it means hunting down a million different answers to find out whats happening if it's NOT then we will be there to do that too.
Don't forget to mention to your OB that your worried about your DS, it could explain any increase in BP and why you may seem distracted while there (if you are that is).
If you get a chance hun take some time out, have a some chocolate and just try not to worry until you know more.