I don't think that makes you judgmental. I feel uncomfortable with the idea too. We all have to make our own decisions and choices as parents, and we're responsible for those, thats what we should focus on. But personally for me, I would feel like I am doing the wrong thing by my baby. And thats not saying others are, because its just how I feel, the belief I have for myself. I've also heard parents talk about how they leave their babies to sleep in their beds while they pick up their children from kinder. They are fine with that. I am not. But they are good people and I would never make judgmental comments to them.