That sounds like your dad for sure hun. I understand you being a tad scared, naturally because most things unknown can be unsettling but perhaps in the day time, you can have quiet conversations with your dad and tell him how you are going, your lil boy is and how much you love him and miss him. He misses you just as much so share some of your daily thoughts with him and if you have to just mention that you love him being with you and your family but no big surprises especially at night ok Sure he will understand.