well im putting this question out there, probably really silly really, but i thought i would ask.

hubby passed 9 months ago, and since then i have seen a phsychic, and he came through very strong, i know he is with me at times, and is in the house, i think he is behind a few things that im doing, i have a few big decisions to make this year ie: where to move to, this is going to be a huge decision, for me, so i really dont want to stuff it up, a girlfreind told me i should try and find out how to connect to him in a spiritual way, so my question really is, is there anyway i can learn to connect to him spiratually, i really dont know if that made any sence, but i would love a way to still be able to connect to him, so how do mediums connect with the no longer living? i might be just rambling, oh he comes to me in dreams also alot, maybe thats a way hes still here with me