Does the universe hate me

[C~Q]

Yesterday I asked the universe for something, something I have been wanting and waiting for, for a long time.

It seems like as soon as I asked I got some pretty bad bloody news from XDH. I also got bad news when I thought about asking the same thing a few months ago.

Do you think that means something or is it just a coincidence? Does the universe hate me? Should I just keep my mouth shut and not expect anything? I'm a nice person, I don't hurt people, I try to be kind to the world, recycle etc - why would the universe hate me??? I can't think why I would have bad karma coming my way

[Arimeh]

It doesn't hate you babe. Maybe you're just on a wave and have to ride out the low tide before you find what you are looking for....



If I can help - give me a hoi!

[SophieRose]

Awww honey, don't beat yourself up. It may just be bad timing. Never be afraid to ask for what you want.
I don't think it's bad Karma. Just a bit of bad luck maybe.
Chin up kiddo, be happy.
xxx

[rhyb]

Its a fine line huh? But I think its bad news for you and probably bad karma for XH IYKWIM??
Big hugs darl hope it gets better

[Lulu]

Ah STOP IT you big bloody sook.

You are getting The Universe mixed up with Leprechauns. You don't make a wish and get it granted...especially one you made yesterday! FFS if recycling got you a lotto win I'd be pretty fricken rich right now.

I know you are worried about a few things - but you will be alright. xH will find another position and will support you and the kids. FACT. He's not some dipsh*t and you guys have got to a really great place right now and you didn't think that was gonna happen but it DID.

Just because things aren't going exactly the way you wanted doesn't mean it is total crud, nor does it mean you will not realize your dream on the PT front. It just may take another form and you can't see it yet. Open your mind and let things flow in, don't close it because your wish didn't come true. Find another one. This does not mean accepting second best.

I've seen you come through worse. I know you have the intestinal fortitude and the ABS to keep going and find a way. You will do it yourself and when you do, don't give the fricken Universe the credit, take it for yourself.

[Lulu]

P.S I love you, and you know that XOXOXOXXO

[Madissun]

The universe definitely wouldn't hate you! Bad timing is maybe what i would call it.

NEVER be afraid to ask for what you want...how else would we get it?

[Ambah]

The universe doesn't hate you. Seriously!
Things can take time to manifest... it depends what you were asking for.
And the bad news from XH, well that is his bad karma, pity that it is affecting you too. You just need to ride each wave hon.
Sometimes we are tested, again, and again, and again, and again. But if you really really feel that you need/deserve/want what you are asking for, then keep asking, and stay determined, and do your best to strive through all the other cr@p that surfaces...

[C~Q]

Aww thanks guys. The silly thing is that what I want has nothing to d with the situation i'm in at the moment.

And Lulu I didn't just ask yesterday I was thinking about asking a couple of months ago and that's the same thing isn't it

You're all right, maybe I just have to be more patient but it's so bloody hard. I will though, patience is my middle name - right after impatience!

And i'll keep recycling!

Fingers crossed