I was thinking about this some more, and I think the dream with BIL (dismembered in a bucket) might be because I feel he has lost some direction of late, and is, in a sense, just made up of parts: father, worker, partner etc. For some time I have been concerned he has lost a sense of 'self' and so maybe thats what the dream means??? He is now fragmented into parts, rather than an authentic identity itms?
So, now I am tempted to say something, but i know DH won't like that analysis at all (he is understandably protective of his family). I have BIL phone number, but honestly, would anyone like to hear that?? I am close to SIL, but that kind of information would freak her out, because she's having a tough time atm...
No replies needed. I just needed to get that out...
*hugs* I'm sorry you had to have icky dreams like that... I used to have absolute SHOCKERS like that, but only when I was pregnant? Might wanna POAS?
Sorry, it's not really funny, is it? I think maybe your assessment of BIL's losing himself is probably very accurate. I'm not sure what you can do about it, except perhaps just have a quiet word to him or SIL that you're there if they need to talk or something? I'm sorry, nothing useful. I hope you don't have any more awful dreams like that, though, you poor thing!
Thanks Donna...I would love to be pg! I am going to buy some hpt this week!! Thanks for your reply. Luckily I haven't had anything quite so gruesome the last couple of nights.
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