thread: HELP PLS!! Can anyone "see" where i may have lost my engagement ring

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  1. #1
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    Did you wash your hands and dry them on paper towel at the shops? Could have come off then. Or at home on a hand towel or they might be in the kitchen. You probably already have done this but try to think back when you saw it last and go from there.
    Could your DD have picked it up?
    MrsB - i actually only noticed it was missing when i walked in the door and went to take them off to wash my hands - Nah, DD def couldn't have got it she was already buckled into the car before we left for the shops and i ran back in to get my rings - ughhh i should've just not worn them


    I dont normally reply to metaphysical stuff as I dont understand it enough but I got a strong feeling of your car. Did you have groceries in the boot? Could it have slipped under the carpet in the boot? I would really have another good search of the car.

    Hope it turns up for you
    Thanks Ali, yeah that was my first point of reference as i thought exactly the same thing, but its nowhere to be found in the boot, i even checked under the spare tyre in the hopes it had fallen down there, but nothing...

    I dont' usually reply either but I saw a counter... God I hope you find it, how heartbreaking!
    Thanks Ella me too, but im not holding out much hope - the centre managment and the other 3 shops i went into said to call back tomorrow morning as they would have done the clean up by then

    I know what it is like, i lost mine a while ago and fond it in the big wheelie bin outside!!

    So maybe check your bins (or get your hubby to do it!)
    What about your handbag? We reach into them a lot, to get keys, purses etc in and out, so maybe it slipped in there, in a side pocket? Sometimes little holes can tear at the bottom of the side pockets and things can slide in between the bag and the inner lining?

    Also, did you call the shops and ask if anything was handed in?

    Maybe it came off in the parking lots when you were loading bags in?

    You could put a little poster up in the shop window offering a reward?

    I thought about this - but if someone finds it they'll know its worth a bit

    Hope you find it, I have my fingers crossed for you!
    FT - i actually had put DD in her carseat and then ran back into the house to put them so i know I had it on when i got to the shops, i only noticed it was gone when i came home and went to take them off to wash my hands and saw that only the band was my finger - i called all the shops before i went back to have another look and i even managed to park in the exact park that i was in the first time and there was nothing...waaahhhhh

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    Oh waaahhh indeed, you must be feeling crapballs! I will keep thinking of you and sending lots of hide and SEEK vibes!

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    I automatically thought of 'car'. Did you check under the passenger & drivers seat and mats?

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    are you sure u had it on before u left th house to go shopping?

  5. #5
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    are you sure u had it on before u left th house to go shopping?
    yeah, i actually got into the car started it and thought "oh, i dont have my rings on" so i actually went back inside to get them both

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    What did you do this morning before you left the house? Did you clean anything out of the ordinary? Put make up on?

    ETA: Just saw your last post... have you checked on the inside of the car in case it didn't go on properly? (not being metaphysical here LOL just practical )

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    What did you do this morning before you left the house? Did you clean anything out of the ordinary? Put make up on?

    ETA: Just saw your last post... have you checked on the inside of the car in case it didn't go on properly? (not being metaphysical here LOL just practical )
    LOL thanks Rogue - yeah i thought practically too and checked all the side slidy things in both the back and front doors as well as under the car mats and nothing - its literally like it disappeared - just soo weird..

    i spoke to the shops i went into (Coles, Big W and a green grocer) and no-one had handed in a diamond solitare ring....all of them have said to call back in the morning after overnight clean up has been done - Centre Management said the same thing so i'll just have to wait until tomorrow now

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    Thanks for all your support ladies - i dont think ive cried so much - its not so much the ring im upset about but the meaning behind it and what DH and I have been through with it

    Ella - yes i am feeling pretty horrific, thank you for your vibes im praying they work!, i've even called on my Angels to help me so im hoping when i go to sleep tonight i'll have some more guidance

    RhiChiChi - i've turned the car upside down, even took out DD's car set and searched that as i thought it might have come off when i was loading her into the car at the shops but so far nothing - i'm going to go through it again tomorrow with fresh eyes, maybe i've missed something...

    its just weird as my ring is not loose, so i dont even know how it came off and no matter how hard i try its like ive lost about 40 mins of time because i remember walking into Coles and i had my ring on (i remember that because i was looking at when i was pushing the trolley) and that was the last time i saw it - when i got home, it was just gone