I have 2 ghosts in my home... I have seen one, he is a guy in his mid twenties with a goatee, and he isn't much taller than me. I saw him about this time of day.
My older son has seen them both, the other is a younger child... not sure if it is male or female... my son saw it's hand come up from under the bed and grabbed a toy whilst he and my younger son were reading a book.... this was also in the day time. My SIL has seen a glowing orb outside my elder DS's room, and she has also seen a child out the corner of her eye.

We have no problems living with them. I have put things down only to have them taken away from me, then I search frantically, come back to where I originally put them and they're back there (usually always my keys but it has been things like the hair brush, DS's sippy cup etc)... I guess I have funny, playful spirits in my home.
I feel relaxed though because they obviously like us otherwise I imagine we would see them more often or we would feel uncomfortable. When my things go missing, I do say out loud "please give xxxx back... I really need it" and I walk away... usually it turns up in a few minutes.
Had I known that there were spirits in my home I would never have moved in... but since being here I know there is nothing to worry about, but I do admit, sometimes I get worried about getting up in the middle of the night to go to the loo or something... it is only on occasion... mostly I don't even think about it.

I hope everything works out fine for you... I'm sure it will :hugs: