I'm feeling much better about it all today After my little panic attack yesterday

You've all given me such wonderful advice, thankyou.

The way I see it now is I just need to harden up (LOL) and stop being afraid. If it becomes an issue you are all right, I just need to simply ask what it is, and sort out some boundaries. I like the idea of filling the house with light too.

I contacted the Agent who proceeded to laugh at me but assured me she knew nothing of it. I'm not sure if that is the truth or not but I guess we'll see.

Nothing to be done now but look forward to starting life in our own home and see what it brings us.

thanks again

xxx