smiles4you- funny you should mention that but the smell i got only lasted a moment too. and actually now that i try and think about it i cant pinpoint what it smelt like i just know that i thought of her and thats what she smelt like when i smelt it.

marydean- i looked though our photos from the party and there arent any orbs or anything in them.

its funny, actually cause sometimes i think that my DD2 is looking and smiling at something that isnt there. she often looks to the right side of me and smiles at something. she is a smiley baby so maybe it is just coincidence but it does make me think. i named DD2's middle name after her also, so maybe they are linked together somehow.. i dunno how this stuff really works though.

also, when i was giving birth a song came on that really linked the two lives together so i wonder if this was her doing as well. she died about a week before bub came along. she decided that bub was a girl a few days before she died too (we hadnt found out on ultrasound and everyone had been leaning towards boy actually).