I can only go from my own experiences - I asked my Mum when she was having a daughter. She was very surprised as she had already had 4 children - but I was quite insistant that there would be another girl. Low and behold, about a year later she was pregnant with my sister!

Again, a bit puzzled about you being labelled a troll - nothing offensive in the question you're asking!

Hopefully you will find BB is more understanding - welcome!