those who see....help me understand.

[Butterfly Dawn]

Perhaps if you talk to your friend about what she can do, how she has coped with this ability, how it made her feel at start and how she feels now etc.
If you talk with her about everything she has been through then you might be able to wrap your head around abit more. Atleast you'll know your friend better and Im sure she will feel good at been able to talk about that side of things with somebody. Then if you dont want to be told things or know stuff, you can let her know.
Im very curious as to what she has told you now

[beckoes]

Im very curious as to what she has told you now

she made a few comments about seeing a little boy standing next to me at our old house, which is where i was pregnant and she was coming to see us as our doula (she didnt tell me at the time). that freaked me out cause DD1 always hated being alone in that house, wouldnt sleep in her room, go down the other end of the house, told me there were monsters etc, moved house and she is now fine. i guess kids are more open to seeing stuff.
Then she made me cry becuase she told me she was knew she was ment to be bringing someone (a spirit) to our birth. she told me that some spirits need a persons life energy to move round (which i wondered if anyone else had heard this? i never have but that means nothing ) and she knew that she was bringing someone important to us to our birth with her. but she didnt know who.
Its funny, because she didnt make it to our birth, just a string of things, weird circumstances and choices by dh among other things meant we didnt ring her and she arrived just after dd2 had been born, i was holding her still delivering the placenta when she walked in. Its the exact same moment that DHs mum walking in during dd1s birth, she passed away 2 years ago, she wouldnt have missed the birth for quids and i guess her telling me what she did shock me abit because i miss my MIL so much and really want her to still be here for the girls!!