Thanks Jay have always thought I could see something but it only when DH is away maybe its just my guide watch while his gone. I will have a talk to him on Friday as thats our night together without the girls, see what he says. My sister who was on her death bed at the time told us that my kids have two old men who she didnt know following then around ( DH's grandfathers) so maybe he felt one of them. But DH's father has past and it would be just like him to grab a foot as he love to scare the bygibers out of everyone.

Tiffanny - my DD2 did this as a young baby also she would never smile for anyone but the person no-one else could see always just over our shoulder.