Hi mel,

I have never had a loss (only a chem preg on 1st IVF which i personally didnt view as m/c but i know some do) so i dont know what that feels like, but i also sometimes think of a third, even though i never thought i would. I thought after DS2 we would be done, but i am often contemplating a 3rd. For me i think its because i am old and its probably not gonna happen, so i guess my regret is not starting sooner, and i guess also part of it is going through IVF and realising what a precious precious gift a little bub is. I hope you are able to decide what you want. Xoxo j.