Thanks Mildez, much appreciated. I will wait and see what happens with this pregnancy and then if it does result in another loss I will speak with her about these suggestions.
I am so sorry your friend is going through this, its my biggest fear is that i had one healthy child and then can't have anymore. I m/c at almost 8 weeks after seeing my baby twice and everything was fine there was no explanation as to why it happened either.
I do suggest that she seeks further help from her FS and that more testing be done, or if what another poster has said wasnt done then it should be.
I know the heartbreak of one loss i couldnt imagine going through 6. BIG to your friend.
This is such a terrible thing to be happening to your friend. To be honest it scares me to death. Ive had 3 in a row in just 10 months and all my tests came back normal after my second m/c. They are doing even more testing this time but so far haven't found a reason. Sometimes they just dont know why. I guess a FS will have to manage her and perform yet more tests to try and find out why.
My heart breaks for your friend. I cant even begin imagine what it would be like to lose six precious babies and to wonder if you can ever carry another to term. Im facing a similar reality but I at least still have hope left since I have only had 3. Consecutive repeated losses is really, really hard. I hope your friend gets some answers soon.
Alas, there was a heartbeat last Tues measured 6.5wks, good strong heartbeat but she should have been 7wks, anyhoo, today no heartbeat. So that's another angel baby for her. I will pass on the tests to get checked & such in time when she is ready to try again.
Tup, I thought I'd already replied to this but it appears not!
So very sorry to hear about your friend - can't imagine the despair of losing so many precious bubs & not knowing why.
I've had 4 m/c's & recently had recurrent m/c testing. Turns out my DH has sperm issues that are the cause. Her & her DP need
to be tested (he needs something callled an scsa test - not just a regular semen analysis).
Hope something turns up for your friend that is fixable & that she gets the bub she sooo deserves. Big hugs xxxx
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to your friend.
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