You've done what you can do honey - you've shown that you are aware that things will be difficult, and you've asked them their wishes for a ba from you. apart from being mindful to send a subdued announcement (perhaps say you wanted them to hear from you before it hits fb, but you understand if they cant be around you or something like that), you can't do much else. it is crummy timing, but you can't change that. you are not intentionally hurting them. it is what it is. you need to celebrate your little bundle, and apart from being mindful to not be in their face with things, there is nothing else you can do. your bub deserves to be celebrated, wholly, by you. now, 12 months down the track when the anniversary approaches, and always.

not sure if i'm spitting this out very well - hope it makes sense

much love to you