I think the fact you are so aware will be very much appreciated by your friends at this sad time. As someone who lost a bub and had friends all around me having babies at the same time, it is very obvious which friends were really really in tune with how we 'may' feel. A friend of mine had her baby a few months after we lost our dd at term and had her dd the day after I mc our rainbow baby. I really appreciated that she didn't send me the BA that she sent everyone and sent me a little personal text later in the day to let me know that baby had arrived and that let me ask her when I was ready about baby (name, dob, how everything went). Another friend did the same and when she sent a pic to friends by email she asked me first if I wanted to see it rather than just sending it and 'shocking' me when I opened it. I think if you continue to be open and aware of how they may be feeling then you are definitely on the right track. You sound like a really good friend I am so sorry your friend is going through this and I good luck with your own journey xo