with some encouragement from BW i visited the site - i wasn't looking for a rememberance item so much as something to push me to be more positive in looking forward in this journey. So, i contacted the site, and arranged to have an anklet made (i already have a bracelet for our angel babies) - so now i have received this gorgeous anklet...

my anklet

it has message beads :
Faith, Courage, Hope and Grace - each having strong meaning for me

i LOVE it!!